If you want to get back into that circle of your friends that you feel like you've fallen out of, you need to tell your friends how you feel, let them know what is going on. Also, it is important to set time aside for them. If they call you on the phone and ask you if you want go do something, check yourself and see if you can pull yourself away from whatever you are doing and join up with them. You can also look up a hotline in your area and talk to them (they are paid to do that) about what is troubling you. Stress, sorrow or whatever else there is, you will soon feel better. Beign shy is a pain, I know, because I was very shy when I was little, and one day I just got tired of not being heard and became LOUD! Don't be afraid to speak your mind. Also, you are going to have to be the one to instigate a conversation instead of expecting them to do so for you. You are going to have to if you want to conquer shyness.

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awww hun!!! you know you can always drop me an e-mail

i know i'm not exactly close distance friend, but i'll always be happy to chat ok? i hope you feel better soon

my advice is to go out, with like one friend, and then both of you go somewhere new and meet some new people, just be yourself, and don't try to be something you're not, cause that causes problems. Just have fun, and try not to feel too bad. You're awesome, and just have faith...we all go through patches like this, i know i went through one.

You don't know what to talk about with them? well why did you become friends in the first place? what helped you become friends? if you do say something random, i'm don't think it would cause trouble!
Just talk to them and i'm sure they'll understand if you talk to them <3 if you need to talk i'm always here for you
hope you feel better hun <333

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Well shoes are made of leather, leather comes from cows,
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I understand how you feel man, I just can't really make pals either.

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The inflatable dragon prince that likes trains.

Same here, but people use to understimate me and once my "friends" bretay me... so, i can't help you so much with it. Just try to relax, you can talk to 'em about how you feel and and try just to laugh at their jokes Xb.

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~Bellette fan art?? oh yes!!! Enter to get inside my wild imagination Xb

To the one who finds my dark side... please, turn on the light

Actually, I was in your shoes until just a while ago. I have my little group of friends, but still it felt like they treated me differently, so I didn't know what to do or what to talk about with them. Then fortunately one of them started drawing and now sees me as his teacher. Still, if you don't know what to talk about, ask questions. Ask them what they like, or if they like something you like. Once you find a point you have in common, you'll start feeling more at ease with them and topics will come naturally.

I'm actually very shy too and have difficulty talking with people, but if you do what I told you to, you'll start knowing the people better, and you'll be able to talk more easily with them. But you can't just wait for it to happen, you have to make it happen. The best thing to do it is by trying to hang out with them more often: invite them to your place, make plans for you and a small group to go to the cinema..

Also, don't try to be friends with everyone at the start. It's impossible. Get better acquainted with a smaller group, then gradually start talking to more people. Me, for example, in a class of thirty, have a group of six or seven at the most. And there's still people I don't usually talk to.

Take it easy, you can't have everything happen suddenly. Rome wasn't built in a day, friendships aren't either. Still, ask a couple of people if they want to catch a movie and try to get better acquainted with them.

Anyway, if you need anything, you know I'm right here. <3 Now I'm gonna stop writing because I've written too much xDD
Good luck, brother ;D

Oh how I hate Friendship Betrals....I'm sorry that happened to you too Bellette. But i'm sure good things will happen to you as well. With your artwork, people are going to see your work of genuis and respect you (like me). Matter of time. I don't like to think of me so I want to lift your spirt up too. I care for my friends even when I don't speak up as much. Online to the internet or at school.

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Just watch out for my evil army of black cats........they will destroy you....

Ohoho! really? Thanks a lot, that makes my gloomy day bright Xb. i have a lot of work lately and i don't have time even to sit XD. But whatever, keep the cool and you will see everything will going to be ok.

Real friends will understand how you feel, really ^^. Hugs and kisses

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To the one who finds my dark side... please, turn on the light

I have come to this conclusion. Life sucks XD

I wanna be/still am your friend :3.

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Well said XDD
And you were still my friend Veronika. We just need to talk more is all.

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Just watch out for my evil army of black cats........they will destroy you....